13 WAYS YOU ARE UNKNOWIGLY LIMITING YOURSELF NOW

These may be the major ways you may be knowingly or unknowingly limiting yourself from achieving or reaching your goals.

                                         1. EGO

  Ego as you know is pride. True, everyone is created with a measure of self esteem and lack of it is also another limiting factor. Ego is totally different and  is esteem instead of esteem. You may easily point out that someone else has ego but will find it hard to identify your own ego.


Ego has been said to eradicate great opportunities. With pride, you are automatically limited. You are going no where with it. You may raise up but will come down quick. So go ask your friends and those that will be honest to you to tell you if you have ego. You don't even know, you can't count how many opportunities you may have lose now till you find out who you are.
 
                                       2. FEAR

Is another factor that maybe self limiting you now. Again, fearlessness do not mean taking any kind of risk. But fear is taking no risk at all. You a always afraid you will loose if you try, but why not try. To you everything seems to be 419 (scam) and you are always afraid of death, I'll health, what we happen next.


80% of what you are scared of are not real. But you limit yourself knowingly or unknowingly by your esteem fear of the unknown.
 
                                 3. Low self esteem

Low self esteem means not seeing yourself up to what you really  can do. As ego is seeing yourself more than who you are, low self esteem is not appreciating that you have what it takes to become like those who you admired their achievement. According to the law of influence and criticism, yes you can. But if you ever think you cant then that is low self esteem. Then you cant. That is why many have not achieve anything because of the believe they have about themselves.

                                     4. SELF PITY

Self pity is destructive. It cripples the power of imagination which is the store house of the creative energy which you can utilize to achieve greater height. It breads low self esteem. For example, you may be suffering now. You may not have achieved your goals despite how much you have been striving. But You may see others achieving theirs as if on a gold platter. Or you may not have been born with silver spoon but you see many others as if born with it. You may not have the wealthy husband or the most beautiful woman but you see others who seems to have it all. You may not have come from a wealthy family but you may see others around you who are. You may be an orphan but you see others with parents.


Just remember, Its not your fault and you must acknowledge that, and accept it.  Appreciate what you have and believe you can still achieve what you don't yet have yet. Failure to do so, its self pity. If you are always saying 'had it been that...' Then you are self pitying yourself. That will not solve any problem, instead it limits you from knowing who you are and what you can achieve like those outside their you thought everything are alright with them. Remember, as you are health, your health is your greatest wealth.


Self pity may have been the factor that is hindering you. Recognize it and shone it.

5. Doubt
6. Neglect
8. Procrastination
9. Ignorant
10. Unwillingness to prepare
11. Indecision
12. Your thought
13. Destructive use of auto-suggestion