If you’re like me the thought of bugging family and friends about something

If you’re like me the thought of bugging family and friends about something you found out about it stops you cold in your steps; especially if you had done many things that you talked to them about.

What I found out was it wasn’t wrong to contact them it was the way I did it.

Let me give you an example on what I mean.

Picture a little old lady with a bad back who has 3 heavy bags of groceries to load into her car.

She is afraid if she lifts these bags she will really hurt her back more.

As she was thinking about lifting one item out of the bad carefully she spots a nice looking young man.

He is wearing a white shirt and tie, with shiny black shoes and tacky pants.

As he walks close to her, the little old lady asks the young man if he would be so kind to put the bag of groceries into her trunk.

The young man says sure and puts the groceries in the trunk for her.

The little old lady is happy that he did this and reaching into her purse and pulls out $100 bill and hands it toward the young man.

The young man either takes the money and says thank you, he may ask if there is something else he could do for her or he could say no thank you please give it to charity.

The thing is this was a pleasant encounter for both people.

Now go back to the little old lady reaching into her purse and instead of bring out $100 she pulls out a gun, sticks it in the man’s face and says give me all your money or I will blow your head off.

The young man may try to knock the gun out of her hand, he may pass out or he may scream.

This would not be a pleasant encounter.

When we approach anyone, especially our family and friends it does make a difference how we talk to them.

Yes, you do want to share with them, because you don’t want them to be mad at you latter for not letting them know about your products that could have helped them.

They could find out from someone else and you lose out.

It’s important not to talk to your friend until your sponsor shows you how to do it.